Decoding the unspoken : vital skill or just an option in an international career ?

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Working in a multinational — or even the local office of a foreign company — means evolving in a multicultural, fast-paced and highly competitive arena. Learn the official rules and you immediately hit the informal ones : political blind spots, alliance networks, the tyranny of time zones… Do you really need to become a corridor-strategy wizard to survive, or can you remain the diligent, straight-talking colleague ?

In this article :


1. Game rules versus game strategy

Think poker : rules are the same for everyone, yet some players calculate odds while others trust luck. Fairness does not mean identical tactics.

ModeMindset
« Good student »Deliver impeccably, never look behind the curtain.
« Chess player »Anticipate alliances, budget timings, visibility with decision makers.

The real question : where do you set the cursor between political awareness and personal integrity ?


2. A practical method : mapping your ecosystem

Inspired by systemic coaching, this mini-exercise helps you “see the board”.

  1. Draw yourself in the centre of a sheet.
  2. Add key people around : N+1, N+2, peers, team, partners, HQ contacts.
  3. For each, jot down
    • their operational priorities
    • their career ambitions
  4. Connect actors : dependency, influence, rivalry, cooperation…
  5. Analyse :
    • who truly decides ?
    • who can champion your idea ?
    • which unspoken constraint weighs on your project ?

The aim isn’t manipulation but avoiding naïveté and information tunnels.


3. The coffee break : waste of time or influence lever ?

Many Asian expats — me at the very beginning — find it puzzling to see French colleagues “go for coffee” three times a day. Yet around the espresso machine :

  • Interpersonal trust is built.
  • Tacit information circulates.
  • Micro-deals smooth projects.

Consider coffee time as an informal meeting paid by the company whose goal is to feed social capital. No fake posture : ask questions, listen, offer constructive feedback. Softest way to “steer the wind” instead of enduring it.


4. Can you stay authentic and strategic ?

  • Strategy ≠ manipulation Choosing when, to whom, how to present your ideas to maximise impact, without betraying values.
  • Ethics is managed like a budget Set your red lines. Knowing others’ lines (thanks to the map) helps avoid collisions.

Key take-aways

  • The rules are common; tactics are your responsibility.
  • Mapping actors reveals real power relationships.
  • Informal spaces are influence zones.
  • Integrity and reading the unspoken are not mutually exclusive.

Ready to practise ? If you want personalised support to develop political intelligence without losing authenticity, let’s talk :

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©Kyria Chun-yin Dagorne / Reinventing Career Coaching
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